From the Coach,

Pretty good analogy….the author is unknown, as far as I know.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things
were so hard for her she did not know how she was going to make it and wanted
to give up; she was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem
was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed
each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil… In the first she placed carrots,
in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.
She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out
and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.
Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter,
she asked, “Tell me what you see.”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and
noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg
and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.

The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma… The daughter then asked,
“What does it mean, mother?”

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity:
boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and
unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened
and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected
its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became
hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in
the boiling water, they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her daughter. “When adversity knocks on your door,
how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?”

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and
adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?
Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or
some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? My shell may look the same,
but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very
circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the
fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst,
you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest
and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you
handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you
strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!

In all things we suffer tribulation, but are not distressed;
we are straitened, but are not destitute; 9 We suffer persecution,
but are not forsaken; we are cast down, but we perish not:
2 Corinthians 4:8-9 (Douay-Rheims)

Let no temptation *take hold on you, but such as is human.
And God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted
above that which you are able: but will make also with
temptation issue, that you may be able to bear it.

1 Corinthians- 10:13 (Douay-Rheims)

Carrot, Egg, Coffee
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